The incidence of people already in supposedly committed relationships creating dating site profiles and meeting people on dating sites is on the increase. The problem is that with so many dating sites available (there seems to be another one popping up every five minutes) the likelihood of catching a cheating partner on one of them is becoming less and less likely. By changing just a few details and maybe using somebody else’s photograph , or no photograph at all, make finding out the truth as to whether your partner is being unfaithful almost impossible.
These are some of the suggestions we can across that have been posted on the internet to check if your partner has created a dating site profile and is meeting other people. We also deal with the problems with those suggestions that will stop you finding out the real truth.
1. Checking their computer browser history.
First of all you have to know your partners password to gain assess to their computer, if you can find that out you may be able to get into their computer to check their browsing history. If they have cleared their history at the end of their last session or they have something called incognito browsing ( which means the computer does not record the browsing history) it will mean you will not be able to check your partners browsing history.
2. Browsing, or searching the online dating sites for a profile similar to that of your partner.
As I have already said there are now literally hundreds of dating sites, there are also sites that are classed more as social media sites (like Tagged) than what would normally be called actual dating sites. A searcher would only be able to check the major dating sites and even then the slightest change in there submitted dating site details would make the profile impossible to find, you could be looking for years and not find your unfaithful partners profile. Even if you did find a likely match you would have to sign into and join the site to make contact with the person. Trying to find a cheating partner like this would be like looking for a needle in a haystack…..take my advice, forget it, you have better thing to do with your life and time.
3. Creating a false persona profile and submit it so that will be attractive to your cheating partner and trap them by letting them find you and contacting you.
Apart from the fact that could stand accused of doing exactly what you suspect your partner of doing (joining a dating site to meet other people) if you were discovered, the likelihood of your partner falling into your trap and contacting you in among the hundreds of sites and thousands of profiles and asking you for a date is extremely unlikely.
4. Install a computer monitoring program on their computer that records their computer usage and key strokes.
First you have to either be able to install it yourself or know somebody who can, and what if your partners is using a different computer than the one you have installed the program on, one at their work, or an IPAD or a phone? Again, forget it, if they are cleaver enough you will never find out the computer they are using.
5. Ask you partner point blank if they are using dating sites.
If your partner has taken the time and trouble to join a site and set up a profile to meet other people I would strongly suggest they are not likely to admit to cheating on you by meeting people on dating sites. The exception would be if they have already met somebody and their relationship is so advanced that they were in the process of leaving you anyway. By confronting them you have achieved no more than bringing forward the inevitable.
6. Register your partner with Fidelity Check Online.
FidelityCheckOnline is becoming increasingly popular among people who want to find out if their partner is cheating on them on dating sites. Registering a suspected cheating partner, or somebody you have met on the internet is quick, easy and inexpensive. The site can tell you if your partner is matched as being in a relationship with another member. It is totally confidential and your partner will not even know they have been registered. The site can provide peace of mind and re assurance or an early and discreet warning of infidelity.